Your Questions About Prayer...Answered

An online forum with responses by Pastor Ed Glaize
SUBMIT QUESTION
Is it always necessary to pray in Jesus’ name?
We Christians often invoke the Lord’s name, not so much as a totem to get what we want, but as a means to ensure that what we are asking for is in line with our Lord’s will. That is what praying in Jesus’ name means.
But some ask what about people of other faiths and their prayers. Well, our Jewish friends have been praying to God for several thousand years before Jesus came on the scene, and their prayers are recorded in scripture as being heard by God. But we also know that God is the creator of the universe and thus all people. So somehow, God hears and responds to the prayers of people that are not believers (and we hope somehow will come to know Jesus!) In our Methodist understanding of prevenient grace, God is at work in the lives of all people even before they are aware of it. This pneumo centric soteriology means the Spirit is moving in the lives of people to cause them to want to reach out to something greater than themselves. And somehow, God listens to those prayers. It is our hope that this process will woo them to Jesus so they can know the joy of being in relationship with Him.
How should we pray for our nation right now?

Sometimes, when we do not know how to pray, it is helpful to look at the prayers of the Church, written by godly people throughout the centuries for use in private and public worship. Some of these prayers specifically relate to praying for the nation, our leaders, and how people should treat one another. Many of these prayers petition for peace among the nations and between individuals. These prayers echo Paul in 2 Timothy 2 where he instructs his young protégé Timothy and his church to pray for kings and persons in high places to promote peace, which is conducive to the spread of the Gospel.

Praying for rulers to seek wisdom to foster justice and truth are common themes in historic prayers. This seeking of justice is echoed in the words from the Anglican Daily Guide for Prayer, “let not the needy be forgotten, nor the hope of the poor be taken away.” We are also led to pray for our enemies, following the commandments of Christ, which includes those with whom we disagree so that hatred, vengeance, and cruelty will be removed from our world, our nation, and our hearts.

Finally, I believe we would do well to ask God to forgive our nation for its sins of arrogance, avarice, and disobedience seen in the many ways in which we live together. For the sake of convenience, we have done much to harm our neighbors and our planet. We should seek God’s mercy and empowerment to live more in line with His way of love.

During these turbulent times for our country, ask God to guide you as you see events unfold in the news, so the Lord can teach you how to pray for what is happening and enable you to respond as necessary — with a heart free from anxiety and filled with God’s peace.

How do I discern or hear God’s response to prayer?
Sometimes you will never know on this side of eternity what an answer to prayer might be.  Who knows, when you get to heaven, a person you never met in person might come up to you and say, “Thank you for praying for me.”
And then, there might be times you will know an answer has been given: you get the job you prayed about…or maybe you did not get that job. A person is healed…or maybe healing did not happen. (This is a subject for another question.)
Also, you might pray about a decision and you get a feeling, an intuition, or a thought that you cannot explain — but you follow that leading and end up in a place you had never thought you would be…doing something you thought you would never do. (That is how I ended up here!)
One time, I was praying about making a decision, and my devotional reading for the day seemed to answer the question for me.  (That is why I did not move from here when presented with the opportunity!)
You never know how God will respond. Just be open and believe that somehow God will respond, maybe in a way you did not anticipate.

How can I concentrate on my prayer when my mind keeps wandering?

First, the wandering mind is natural. It happens to even the most mature of saints. But as one saint said to a distraught person because his mind seemed to be distracted 10,000 times during prayer: “What a privilege to return to the Lord 10,000 times who welcomes you each time!”

Recently, I came across a reading describing the mind being like a bunch of monkeys in a tree! You will not still them by shouting. But by speaking quietly and gently, just as you would to a petulant child, peace will begin to be revealed.

I have found that a single word or simple phrase can be used to draw one’s attention back to God and to prayer. When you find your mind meandering, bring it back gently with a word like, “merciful,” “peace,” “beauty,” or another description of who God is for you. Do this over and over again as you find yourself less distracted in the life of prayer.

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